I don't usually write things like this, but after what happened with my 7 year old, I had to share.
For almost two years, our evenings looked exactly the same. Arjun on his tablet. Me on my phone. Both of us in the same room, but completely disconnected. I'd tell him "five more minutes" and he'd ignore me. I'd try puzzles, cricket in the garden, drawing books. Nothing held his attention for more than a day.
The worst part wasn't the screen time itself. It was the feeling that I was losing him to a device. That the moments I imagined us sharing laughing together, competing, just being present were slipping away one notification at a time.
The turning point came during his school's parent-teacher meeting. His teacher pulled me aside and said gently, "Arjun is bright but he struggles to stay focused for more than a few minutes." I sat in my car afterwards and just stared. I knew exactly why. And I knew I had to do something different not just take the screen away, but replace it with something he'd actually love.
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